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		<title>A Soft Touch over Muscle</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2013 12:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Darryl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve learned the hard way that bicycle repair takes a whole lot of finesse, and not too much muscle.  Yeah, you know what I&#8217;m talking about right? Tightening a carbon seat post, adjusting shifter cables, and pretty much everything else on a bicycle requires a soft touch or else you just might do more damage [...]]]></description>
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<p>Tightening a carbon seat post, adjusting shifter cables, and pretty much everything else on a bicycle requires a soft touch or else you just might do more damage than good.</p>
<p>You see, my problem is that I&#8217;m not quite the mechanic that I&#8217;d like to be&#8230;.so when I&#8217;m doing my own repairs on the bike, I seem to muscle my way through it.  Well, at least I used to do that.  I realize now how delicate my beloved bikes are, and that having a delicate hand is the only way to go.</p>
<p>But a soft touch is also the way to approach things in everyday life as well.  Some people have success by bullying their way, or muscling through a situation&#8230;.but to me that is not real success.  If you have to push someone down, or screw them over to get ahead&#8230;.then you&#8217;re really further behind than you may think.</p>
<p>There are some aspects of life where I seem to handle situations in a calm and delicate way&#8230;.and it&#8217;s always provided nothing but good things.  But there&#8217;s also aspects that I&#8217;m still working on.  Yeah, at times this mild-mannered cyclist can totally lose his temper and lash out at a person or situation.  Each time this happens, I&#8217;m reminded how doing so is about as effective as muscling my way through a bicycle repair.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s only one bicycle repair professional that I know personally well enough to witness if what they&#8217;ve learned by fixing a bike has taught them how to successfully react in all life situations.  Yeah, he really knows how to <a href="http://lovingthebike.com/category/make-it-happen-mondays" target="_blank">Make it Happen</a>.  I wonder if all bike mechanics have a soft touch over muscle&#8230;..on and off the bike?</p>
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