The Distance

You can get a free copy of David’s book just by commenting and letting us know why you’re interested in his story and if you have dreams of one day doing the same thing he did.  Leave your comment below and on Monday (July 25th) we will announce who gets a copy of the book.  We have a couple to give away so get your comment in by Sunday at 6:00PM EST and you’re in to win.

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  • http://twitter.com/AverageIronMan David Mills

    I have no doubt that Rebecca and Heather will become Ironmen (Ironwomen?) if they decide to go for it.  You’re absolutely right about it being all about a “strong mental outlook”.    Like Yogi Berra said, “90% of it is half mental”.  I hope you will keep me posted (on Twitter or FB) so I can follow you on your Ironman journey!

  • http://twitter.com/rgerdon Rebecca Gerdon

    I have thought about competing in an ironman before.  I tend to vacillate between positive, confident thoughts and negative, doubtful thoughts when it comes to my endurance and fitness.  A lot of the ability to do endurance events comes from having a strong mental outlook.  Sometimes I have this strong mental outlook and sometimes I don’t.  I won’t discount myself from the possibility of an ironman finish. Who knows? Maybe one day I’ll have the urge to go the 140.6 miles 

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      An ironman is definitely a lofty goal.  If it becomes something you want to shoot for, I wish you all the luck and encouragement to go after it.

  • http://twitter.com/Running_Heather Heather Hughes

    Three years ago I weighed 200 lbs. As a 5′ 1” woman, that doesn’t allow you to hide the weight well. I was mocked, bullied, and made fun of throughout high school. I joined the softball team my junior year to try to loose weight and just fit in. My softball locker posters were defiled though out the season, as unknown students wrote “fat a**” and “big mama” all over them. When I went to college it was the same type of atmosphere and my self-esteem was at an all-time low. That was, until my sophomore year when I met a soldier who was a runner and cyclist just like David Mills. He was the first person to see me as I was inside. He invited me to the gym, taught me workout techniques, and before I knew it, I had lost 20 lbs. I fell in love with this man and we became a couple. As we dated, he bought me a road bike and trained me. Three months later I did an 88-mile ride with his cycling group. I was losing weight consistently and I was finally able to like myself. I began competing in 5Ks and seeing true results in my athletic performance. When he proposed, I weighed 135 lbs and was able to buy AND wear the dress of my dreams! Now, we run, bike, and swim together constantly. My husband helped to literally transform my life. Now, I can’t live without fitness. It is everything! We are currently training for our first half-marathon. We plan to train for our first triathlons in the next few years and we both have serious goals of doing an Ironman. I am interested in David’s story because he is an inspiration! I would like a copy so I could not only learn how to reach my dreams from David’s experiences, but so I could share this story with my husband so I can inspire him the same way he inspired me these past three years. Thank you!

    • Anonymous

      Heather, that’s an awesome story.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Hi Heather,

      I wanted to thank you for sharing your personal story with us.  This is incredible and beautiful.  Sorry you weren’t one of our winners for the book giveaway, but I hope you’ll consider getting a copy for yourself anyway.  Please be sure to keep us updated on everything and let us know if we can help out in any way.

      Darryl

  • PinkChick

    Heh, I’m just an ordinary gal. I got back into running in my 40s and was inspired to try triathlons in my 50s. I finally did my first one at 55, last year. Got hooked and did 4 in 2010. I did 2 this year and plan to keep doing them. Call me crazy but I do think about IronMan. Will I get there, only time will tell. In the meantime I keep training and trying. I’m not getting older I’m getting better.  I’d love to read this book.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Congratulations…you’ve won a copy of the book.  Send me your contact details and we’ll get it out to you soon.

      Darryl

  • http://www.massivemtber.co.uk Clive Chapman

    Ordinary guy doing a Tri, top stuff, and a military feller too! I have a sneaking desire to do a tri when I finally finish my weight loss program. I was a half decent swimmer back in the day and as a Soldier (again back in the day) I had to run. So along with my biking I feel I would be equipped to do a short tri when I’m back at my fighting weight.

    Obviously I’d just be looking to finish not compete!

    Good luck with the book, if I don’t win then I’ll certainly grab a copy!

  • http://www.reasons2ride.com/ Joel Phillips

    First off, Mr. Mills, you are not an “Average Joe”.  “Average Joe’s” are not commissioned as officers in the Air Force, Army, Navy, Marines or Coast Guard.  You are entrusted as a leader of men, and as all good leaders of men do, you inspire.  I too am on a journey and seek inspiration and motivation from wherever it can be found.  I am interested in your story because for this reason.  To learn the structure and discipline you employed, for tips and tricks to avoid the loopholes of life that often trip us up along the way to reaching our goals.  Most of all, I would look forward to passing it along to inspire another once I’ve finished reading what I know is a fantastic story.

    Darryl,

    Thanks for continuing to provide quality stuff for anyone, I aspire to be as helpful.

    Joel

    • http://twitter.com/AverageIronMan David Mills

      Thanks Joel!  I just checked out your website and I love your approach and inspiration.  I hope you’ll enjoy and be encouraged by my book.

  • Liztacular

    My friend who cons me into trying crazy stuff is trying to con me into doing a triathlon with her.  I’ve thoroughly enjoyed my midlife crisis so far, and I wonder if a triathlon might be icing on the cake.  In nursing school, working full time, three kids under 12 at home, and interested to hear how to make that work with training!

    • http://twitter.com/AverageIronMan David Mills

      Oh, you are the perfect candidate for an Ironman!  I love it!  (It was a friend who “conned” me in too)

  • Eddie

    Dave – I just want to read the book!!!!

  • Christopher Buchanan

    The biggest thing that helped me with the swim training was a class that the local YMCA gave. The instructors gave us a workout Monday and Wednesday mornings and as we did the workout they helped me improve my form to the point that the swim which I thought would be the hardest event ended up being the easiest. 

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Good to see you work through it and achieve success.  Good luck in the contest.

  • the Rizza

    Dave- you are a little girl..put up your dukes!…good job! now give me your book

  • http://lifeoutsidethecomfortzone.wordpress.com/ Sue Gelber

    Looking forward to checking out the book. I, too, am curious about finding time to train. Training for a half-ironman took just about every spare minute I had. I don’t think I could do a full. Of course, I originally said that about the half too.  :-)

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Congratulations on completing a half….and good luck should you choose to go after the full.  You are amazing.

  • http://twitter.com/JasciaRed Jascia Redwine

    Like many people when it comes to triathlons, I am apprehensive about the swim part. I have finished two sprint tris, and both times, I find that my mind fills with anxiety during the swim. I finish the swim part within my estimated time, which is good, but I always feel anxious and think that I stink at this part. I have friends trying to get me to do a half Ironman with them and I really, really want to!!

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Nice to hear from you and I hope you continue to get better and better.  Go out there and get that half Ironman under your belt.

  • http://twitter.com/JasciaRed Jascia Redwine

    Like many people when it comes to triathlons, I am apprehensive about the swim part. I have finished two sprint tris, and both times, I find that my mind fills with anxiety during the swim. I finish the swim part within my estimated time, which is good, but I always feel anxious and think that I stink at this part. I have friends trying to get me to do a half Ironman with them and I really, really want to!!

  • http://about.me/Aaronthestrong Aaronthestrong

    Wow! I can say that regardless of winning this book or not, I will be getting it soon! This entire story sounds like my inner monologue for the last year. I am always eager to hear how others in similar situations like this manage the daily ebb and flow, especially when they can come out on top.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      You’ve got a history of winning over here so you never know.  Thanks for your comments and enjoy the book…either way.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_AY5X4I2AYVSDOI24EWCWMCFQPM Robert

    OK so here goes.  I’m interested to learn not only how he trained but how he found the time needed.  I’m 44 years old, recently quit smoking, a bit overweight and have two small children ages 3 and 1 month.  I purchased a bicycle with the hopes of  getting back into shape but cannot seem to find the time.  I dont want to miss my children growing up and starting their own lives.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Thanks for sharing your personal story and this book sounds like the right thing to get you going.  We’ll announce the winners on Monday.  Good Luck.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Congratulations @yahoo-AY5X4I2AYVSDOI24EWCWMCFQPM:disqus  you are one of the winners in our “The Distance” contest.  Please send your contact information to darryl@lovingthebike.com and we’ll get it out to you.

  • http://bikingtolive.com Bryan

    Sounds like a great book. I can relate to him on so many levels – military officer, married, kids, hectic days and so on. I’m sure many of the other readers can relate too.

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      Thanks Bryan……his story actually reminded me of you a little.  I hope you get the chance to check it out.

  • http://twitter.com/bikerly Jim (@bikerly)

    Hey @AverageIronMan:twitter - I’m still working on becoming an average marathoner, but in secret, a life goal of mine is to finish an Ironman and get the logo tattooed on my left calf. 

    I like the idea of being “average” at a ridiculously BIG goal.  Good to see your post here, David.  

    • http://lovingthebike.com Darryl is Loving the Bike

      I can’t wait to see that tattoo on your leg.